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One of my very good friends recently went through a breakup (see? it's like a domino effect... a lot of the girls in my year broke up with their boyfriend... are we cursed in 2010?! or guys we dated just suddenly went nutso in 2010? HAHA! All my friends either got engaged in 2010 or they would break up. It's like there is no "middle point"!). She sent me a little excerpt of quotes by an old Chinese author, who was well-known for her woman literature (I read some of her works before... interesting read, no doubt.) I pick some of her quotes to share with you....No matter how good this man is to you, how caring, how attentive... If he doesn't love you, this is a fatal flaw, and you will never be able to change it.
Regardless how bad your qualities are, there are always someone out there who loves you. Vice versa, regardless how good and attractive you are, there are always people who will not love you.
If you blame love for hurting you, please ask yourself, did you give out permission in the very beginning for love to come into your life?
If a person is busy, it's because he/she doesn't want to be free. If a person cannot leave, it's because he/she doesn't want to leave. If a person is making a lot of excuses to get away with things, it's because he/she doesn't care anymore.
There are things where you can never fully explain or understand. If you think it's worth it, then you will believe it is. If you think it's not worth it, and other people say it's worth it, you will not feel the same way.
Man will like a person very easily but difficult to love someone deeply and whole-heartedly.
Woman, when she is in love, will cut the world off in order to indulge herself.
Don't even strive to change someone because no one can be changed completely. It only comes down to if that person is willing to be changed for you.
Time can make you understand love, prove love, and also overthrow love.
Please don't say there are no good man left in the world. Don't hate the person who leaves you because after all, he did love you, cared for you, and made you feel loved at one point.
Not all hard work will lead to success, especially in relationship, but if you don't put effort in it, it will definitely not going to work.
You have to love yourself... no matter how depressed and hopeless you feel. The more you don't love yourself, the more unlovable you become.
Let go. Don't hold on to the things you lost. Maybe they are not meant to be yours.
Have to be independent. Regardless in love or about your finance.
If you need to find out if a man is good or bad, don't evaluate base on if he is loyal or not. Man is always tempted to look "elsewhere" ... but it's his self-control to not act on it, that's the key.
You notice that a lot of the most memorable love usually do not end in a happy ending?
Strong and confident woman is always more beautiful than a weak woman. If your lover won't love you anymore, I suggest to gather all your strength to let go and leave, than to linger on endlessly, hoping your lover will come back.
A woman can compromise is a virtue. If a woman only knows to compromise, that is a true sign of weakness.
Be a confident woman. Beauty originates from confidence.
(For guys reading this post, I hope you will still find it useful for you to pick up the pieces and move forward. )
